Stream of Thought

Dudes:  NEVER feel like you have to play that "tough guy" card all the time and not show emotions or rarely show affection in order to get a woman's attention.  You are much stronger as a man when you are capable of loving and showing that you can be vulnerable as well.  When it comes down to it, most guys are just scared of getting hurt.  So as a result they choose to put up a wall and act like they don't care.

The problem with this is they'll never know what it's really like to love someone.  If you LIKE someone…tell them!  If you LOVE someone…show them!  Don’t play games & leave it all out there! Sure women may chase the "bad boys" because they are a "challenge".

Ladies: I wish you all the luck in the world with that "bad boy" thing.  "Bad boys" are only a challenge because they play games and will never give you what you want.   After a while those games get old and you still end up alone and pissed.  So stop chasing and wait for the guy that that puts in the effort to make you feel special.
 
Oh and fella's, remember...All you have to do is work hard, set great examples for those around you and provide stability and emotional support, which is something that 99% of guys can't do these days.   Always hold yourself to a high standard because at the end of the day, ALL ladies want is a MAN in their life that will be supportive, respectful, loving, and attentive.
Choose to be real. Will you get hurt now and then?   Yes, most likely, but at least you'll know what it's like to love and be loved.  Just keep building your empire and don't look back.  Someday the one worthy of sharing your throne will appear.